There’s a lot to make you feel really gushy about your daughter getting married. Pride, joy, and a touch of heartache. And between holding back tears and making sure everything is right on schedule, it can be tough finding that perfect dress.
You want a dress that makes you feel beautiful and put-together (not to upstage the bride, of course!) But, the process does not need to be overwhelming. Here is a basic guide to help you pick a mother of the bride dress:
Know the Wedding Formality
Ok, first things first, understand and know what the dress code is, as this will dictate the feel of the wedding.
If the couple is throwing a black-tie affair, opt for a classic floor-length dress with chic details. You could also select a stylish evening gown with features such as lace, silk and beading.
A mid-knee dress would be perfect for a semi-formal wedding. For less formal or outdoor weddings, you might explore options like flowy maxi dresses or floral prints.
Feel free to ask the couple or your daughter how much bling and/or sparkle is appropriate. It’s not just about looking cute, but also becoming a part of the day’s vibe.
Coordinate with the Wedding Theme
Nearly two in three couples decide on a colour palette which dictates the overall look of the entire set-up. Matching the bridesmaids isn’t required (unless you have explicitly been asked to by the bride), but it’s a good idea to try to find a dress that fits into the general look and feel of the wedding.
Moreover, there are endless options for dresses for mother of the bride. For instance, jewel tones and metallics shine at formal events, while soft pastels or florals look stunning at a garden-themed wedding. If you’re going for prints, just make sure they’re not too bold or distracting.
Choose the Right Colour
This is where most mistakes happen. Let’s get one thing settled: White is exclusively for the bride, so it’s best to stay away from it (unless given an all-clear by the bride)
Start by finding out what colours the bridal party will be wearing. Again, you don’t have to match, but it’s a good idea to choose a complementary shade. For example, if the bridesmaids are wearing blush, soft hues like champagne, mauve, or soft grey can look elegant and cohesive.
Jewel tones like emerald, burgundy, and sage green are timeless options. They suit many wedding styles. Lastly, soft pastels are excellent for a summer/ spring wedding.
Consider the Fabric
As the mother of the bride, you’ll be walking around a lot. So, make sure the fabric feels good against your skin.
Start by considering the seasons and weather. For summer or outdoor weddings, lightweight options like chiffon, silk, or lace are breathable. In cooler months, fabrics like satin, velvet, or brocade add warmth and a touch of luxury.
Consider how structured and fitted you want the dress to be. Try sitting, standing, and walking in the dress to avoid any surprises on the big day.
Lastly, be yourself! Keep your personal style and aesthetic in mind when going fabric shopping.
